This is when a male tries to reform a female that cannot be reformed. In other words he always coddles and reinforces the bad behavior of a female that needs a spiritual awakening. This male could be her boyfriend or a friendzoned male that wants her but cannot get her because she is not attracted to him as a beta. He may even be able to get her to sleep with him and he will be there for her, but the second she leaves his sight he is running around on him in search of the next dopamine adventure.